Over the past few months people have said things to me like, "Your life seems so perfect", or "You have a great life". And I'll admit that my life is wonderful, but it hasn't always been. Hearing their comments caused me stop and take a deeper look at what others are seeing, and when I did, I discovered why they made such statements. These people were witnessing the luscious fruit that has come from years of prayer. Psalm 126 is one of my favorite passages, and it has given me so much encouragement over the years. I always quoted verse five as a reminder that hard times don't last forever.
Those who sow in tears shall reap in joy. Psalm 126:5
If you are struggling in your marriage or are planning to get married one day, these simple yet powerful keys are like weapons of mass destruction against the enemy who wants to still, kill, and destroy marriages. If we do marriage God's way, our marriage will last!
7 Keys to a Lasting Marriage
2. Never go to bed angry at your spouse. Doing so gives the devil room to work in your relationship. See Ephesians 4:26
3. Be quick to forgive, and to ask for forgiveness whenever necessary.
4. Talk things out. Good communication is vital to having a strong marriage. When we gain understanding, by seeing things from our spouses perspective we are empowered to overcome any situation.
5. Always remember you're on the same team. Your spouse in not your enemy!
6. Submit to one another in the fear of God (Ephesians 5:21). Remember submission is not something we agree to do if our spouse is perfect, or if they deserve it. Submission is as unto the Lord. It's not for the purpose of being walked upon or used and abused, it's about your obedience to the Word of God. And when you obey God, He sees to it that you come out on top of the situation.
7. Pray without ceasing. Praying the Word of God over your marriage and family makes all the difference in the quality of life you will experience.
Remember, change comes when you make a decision that you've had enough of your current situation. I've discovered that many people want the results without putting in the work. And sometimes people are jealous or envious of what another person has, but they haven't gone through what that person has gone through to get to where they are. We like another person's glory, but we don't know their story. Consider a couple who has prayed and gone through a series of counseling sessions and put in the work to have a good marriage, then another married person looks and wants the same kind of marriage but they are not willing to work for it. We must be willing to put time and effort into our marriages, both through natural and spiritual means in order to reap the benefits. For there is no partiality with God (Romans 2:11). What He does for one, He will do for the other.
Do you want a better marriage? Has something gone terribly wrong, and you can't even talk about it without shedding tears? Whatever it is, God can fix it. Remember all change starts with a decision. When we make up our minds that we've had enough, and we cry out to God for help, the process of change will begin.
Always remember Pray-ers Bear Fruit!
Kathy
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